When Winning Is Losing

“Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on the cheek, offer the other one as well. If someone takes your coat, don’t withhold your shirt either. Give to everyone who asks and don’t demand your things back from those who take them. Treat people in the same way that you want them to treat you. If you love those who love you, why should you be commended? Even sinners love those who love them. If you do good to those who do good to you, why should you be commended? Even sinners do that. If you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, why should you be commended? Even sinners lend to sinners expecting to be paid back in full. Instead, love your enemies, do good, and lend expecting nothing in return. If you do, you will have a great reward. You will be acting the way children of the Most High act, for he is kind to ungrateful and wicked people. Be compassionate just as your Father is compassionate.” (Luke 6:27-36)

“Now when the Human One comes in his majesty and all his angels are with him, he will sit on his majestic throne. All the nations will be gathered in front of him. He will separate them from each other, just as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right side. But the goats he will put on his left.
Then the king will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who will receive good things from my Father. Inherit the kingdom that was prepared for you before the world began. I was hungry and you gave me food to eat. I was thirsty and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger and you welcomed me. I was naked and you gave me clothes to wear. I was sick and you took care of me. I was in prison and you visited me.’
Then those who are righteous will reply to him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you a drink? When did we see you as a stranger and welcome you, or naked and give you clothes to wear? When did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’
Then the king will reply to them, ‘I assure you that when you have done it for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you have done it for me.’
Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Get away from me, you who will receive terrible things. Go into the unending fire that has been prepared for the devil and his angels. I was hungry and you didn’t give me food to eat. I was thirsty and you didn’t give me anything to drink. I was a stranger and you didn’t welcome me. I was naked and you didn’t give me clothes to wear. I was sick and in prison, and you didn’t visit me.’
Then they will reply, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison and didn’t do anything to help you?’ Then he will answer, ‘I assure you that when you haven’t done it for one of the least of these, you haven’t done it for me.’ And they will go away into eternal punishment. But the righteous ones will go into eternal life.” (Matt 25:31-46)

Robert Lupton in his book “Theirs Is The Kingdom: Celebrating The Gospel In Urban America”, has a reflection called “When Winning Is Losing”. He recounts his competitive nature, and specifically recalls realizing during a combat mission in Vietnam, that the same thrill of winning accompanied killing as it did any other competitive victory. He then turns that observation to the countless men he witnessed run down and defeated by the competitive economy, “I wondered if all was well with an economic system where winning meant defeating another human being. Could it be that among human beings cooperation was a better way than competition?”

When I think about his reflection I think of Jesus’ examples of Righteousness and Justice, or what is our relationship to God and to others (Righteousness) and what is the goal of those relationships (Justice). Love your enemies, do good, and lend expecting nothing in return is not the advice I would give to one in pursuit of gain in a competitive economy. I cannot be loving the person I have defeated in pursuit of economic superiority. What if Jesus’ stark warning in the parable of the sheep and the goats isn’t about acts of charity, but about systems and ways of being? I am not just guilty of being a goat when I pass by a homeless person, or fail to give to a charity organization; I am guilty of being a goat when I participate and perpetuate economic systems that thrive “when winning is losing”.


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